In a healthy family system, everyone’s roles are clearly defined. They have clear boundaries which promote individual wellbeing while enhancing interpersonal relationships. When issues arise, ruptures to the relationship can be repaired without too much sweat and tears. The baseline experience for members of this sort of family is one of security, safety and trust. Needs are met ‘well enough’ and boundaries are respected. However, in a dysfunctional family system, things are
